There are groups on Facebook for dating and things like that. I don't have that problem, because if you're not interested, whatever, that's your problem. When a guy sends a big girl at the bar a drink, she might think, "Oh, is he making fun of me?
I was definitely never insecure, but I was involved with church and stuff back then, so I didn't really date. I think I finally figured it out — that guys were also attracted to bigger girls — when I was 23, 24. that there was a BBW chat room, so I got on that and started talking to people. They have parties — they're just like a big dance with a buffet and a DJ. " With online dating, they're not going to message you unless [they're] interested.].
However, you also know you're dating someone who has less muscle mass than you do and so you just keep walking on your own legs. Eating the exact same meal for dinner, except that he's stuffed and you're starving. Like, you actually replaced most of your shirts with his shirts, and it's the best.
It's not like you want him to carry you everywhere like a purse, but when you're not feeling well or your shoes are killing you, it's a nice idea. And now I am going to eat your leftovers off your plate like a mom. You can't wear his boxers to bed because they're super tight and uncomfortable. I swear they're children's boxers but he'll never say. His boy T-shirts fit you really well, so you can steal them (and not just for sleeping). I know we're together and he constantly tells me I'm super hot so that's probably my answer but ... Because he is perfect and you adore him even if he cannot open any jars ever. You wind up carrying all the heavy stuff when you're picking up groceries together.
And I don't judge them for that because, like I said, I am only attracted to certain types as well.
There is fetishism of the BBW community, so I make it very clear when I start talking to somebody online that if they're not attracted to all body types, I won't date them.