But a longer trip, if you don't really find someone interesting, would be a problem if you were trapped, say, on a boat or mountaintop.On the other hand, if you went with a buddy, you could have fun even if there was nobody interesting there.What advice would you give me as far as first date suggestions? And if waiting is important to you, I assure you there are people out there who feel the same.Should my courtship techniques be the same as when I was in my 20s? Question from Randi: What do you think about long-distance relationships? They take a lot of attention, by e-mail, by phone, sacrificing money because the cost can become difficult.
I think people should go out with the people they are attracted to. That is to say, you are a mature woman and you want to date, so I think you need to talk to your son and tell him that you are going to start dating again. But there is more to love than hair color, and I think people pick who they love on other criteria.And it's easy to grow apart because you're not sharing day-to-day life.Question from Guest: I am 59, and all of the men that I see are interested in younger women.Do I have to find an 80-year-old to be the younger woman?