But abuse is not a typical or healthy way to treat people.
If you're not sure you are being abused, or if you suspect a friend is, it's always OK to ask a trusted adult or friend.
Recognizing abuse may be especially difficult for someone who has lived with it for many years.
Emotional abuse can hurt and cause damage just as physical abuse does. Neglect occurs when a child or teen doesn't have adequate food, housing, clothes, medical care, or supervision.
This is also true of people who abuse someone they're dating.
But being abused is no excuse for abusing someone else.
Sometimes a seemingly minor thing can trigger a big reaction.
Being touched inappropriately by a family member, or being told to keep secrets, for example, can be very confusing and traumatic. Friends, couples, coaches, and teachers can get upset, frustrated, or have a bad day.