But your thinking amplifies your flaws, even invents false ones, and embellishes their meaning.
This takes places automatically when you’re in social situations, and generates your feelings of anxiety and hesitancy to just be social.
Most statistics state than shyness is somewhat more common for girls than for guys.
Nevertheless, make no mistake about it, there are heaps of shy guys out there, and many of them are in fact extremely inhibited.
A lot of shy guys appear to deem that their lack of social confidence is the result of their shortages in terms of success, status, looks, charisma or sexual experience.
Whatever your condition may be, trust me, I know several guys in the exact same condition who are very confident socially and have no problems making friends or enticing members of the opposite sex.
She might not be the first person to come up to you at a party, but she's daring, adventurous, and an even (gasp!
Yes, it's going to take some time to get to know her.
How to gracefully accept a compliment is probably a thing she has yet to master.
It's actually the worst, I don't know why I wore it like this.