We have a great time together and he calls every night to chat or say goodnight.I am really interested in him and I get the feeling that he feels the same way.They like having women contacting them…even if they are rejecting all of them as it makes them feel desirable.If you think this is annoying I definitely understand but I would still encourage tact when you try to resolve this issue.I get that idea and if he were actively looking to meet new people I could even agree…but if he’s only logging in to respond to new emails why not ?His response actually makes me wonder if he even realizes that he could hide his profile.What You Do The one thing you shouldn’t do is verbally attack the guy or start throwing out ultimatums.If he’s hesitating because he’s concerned about commitment, this approach could scare him off.
Until the conversation happens, I would say it is fair for a guy to keep his profile up.
As I discussed above, I would recommend against being aggressive or angry.
Still, these are areas you will need him to define.
If you have agreed to be exclusive, things are easy: you just need to ask him to take it down!
If you haven’t agreed to be exclusive, I feel this is the point that the relationship would need to reach before you would be in a position of strength to ask that the profile be removed.