Even though I'm talking to the guys here, many of these points apply to you too. Dating in midlife isn't always easy, but at least you're all in it together, and you can all make it great.So men, before you break out into a cold sweat, know that all this is well intended and researched. Since I got married for the first time at 51, I can speak from experience when it comes to dating men in their 50s.
If you're feeling hesitant, a good way to ease into it is to visit a few dating sites and look around.Maybe you're lonely, horny, you want a girlfriend, need some company, or just need to get laid. We ALL want love, but some guys blow it by rushing.GF #1: "There seems to be some kind of 'trying on of a girlfriend.' On the first date, I've had a guy take my hand and rub my shoulders, without any words of seduction or romance.Most services allow you to check out their members at no cost or obligation.Then, if you like what you see, you can sign up (fees typically range between and per month, however some sites are free) and start emailing members you're interested in or they can email you. Choose a site: With over 1,000 matchmaking sites on the Internet today, choosing can be a bit overwhelming.