There’s something to be said for caution, as dating your best friend can have some icky consequences, but there are also super sexy benefits to falling in love with your best pal. If you and your bestie have had a fight that felt more like a breakup, then things have definitely taken a romantic turn. Does he tell you about the newest video game coming out, his weird issues with his mom, or the hair he found in his soup?
Signs you’re dating your best friend already So have you crossed the line from best friends into something more? Sometimes, our friends catch on to things before we do. Sure, we all have intense fights with friends from time to time, but if this particular fight leaves you with knots in your stomach, makes you cry, or results in a getting-back-together-like reunion, you may be closer to coupledom than you think. Do you tell him about friend/family/workmate drama, Sephora’s new value palettes, and how your period cramps are killing you?
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We’re looking at 10 signs you may actually be dating your best friend—and you don’t even realize it! For example, are you constantly having to make a defense with a long, thought-out list of reasons why you’re “so not a couple” to your friends? If your BFF made plans that don’t involve you, or makes a new friend and you become a jealous freak, you may want to re-examine what you’re jealous of. Oversharing comfortably is a definite sign that things are taking a relationshippy turn.
Or do your friends expect that if they invite one of you to a party or event, the other one will inevitably show up as well? I mean, you’re obviously bringing your best friend. Is it the plans, or that your BFF wants to hang out with someone who isn’t you? You exchange “good morning” texts, call or text throughout the day detailing work life and the bad-breath monster you were trapped with on the elevator, and you finish off the day with an obligatory night-time phone call or goodnight text. What’s more, do you tell your BFF things you wouldn’t dare tell anyone else?
Yes, there are pitfalls – high expectations and the fear of ruining what you have among them – but if you go into it with your eyes open, who’s to say it won’t work out?
Take too many shortcuts and you’ll miss out on this vital stage of the relationship; simply, take the time to go on proper dates and learn to love each other in this brand new light!
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If there’s even a remote possibility that you could be dating your best friend – that you could love them and they could love you in a deeper way – surely it’s worth exploring?