1) If it was the other way around: The first big rule is what would you think if your partner was having the same friendship with someone else? This is one of the best measuring methods of whether the friendship is inappropriate.
2) Opposite sex: I’m not saying don’t have friends with the opposite sex, but this is a good clue to their being a potential problem ;o) 3) Many years age difference: Having a close relationship with a girl many years younger, or a guy who is much older (and of course it can go vice versa in this new world of the Couga!
For example, if you are in touch with them more than your own partner, then that’s definitely not a good sign.
6) Degree of innuendo: It’s often considered quite normal for their to be innuendo within the office or social situations, and peer pressure can mean that people ignore what may be crossing the line, so I refer you back to the ‘shoe on the other foot’ rule!
If you are worried a friendship that you have could be crossing the line, or you are worried about your partner’s friendships, feel free to get in touch or pop a comment below (it can always be anonymous).fit=110,110" data-large-file="https://i2com/mummywhispererblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/Question-Corner.jpg? fit=110,110" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1870" title="Question Corner" src="https://i2com/mummywhispererblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/Question-Corner.jpg?resize=110,110" alt="" data-recalc-dims="1" / This question was logged by one of my male readers (I know I’m the ‘mummy whisperer’, but as I’ve been talking about Sex a lot, I’ve gained quite a lot of male readers too), and I have to admit that at first I kind of thought ‘well isn’t it obvious? Then I realised that firstly we aren’t all socially savvy and secondly even when we are, we can be naive as well, including us women who are meant to be much more capable of understanding these sorts of things.If you are reading this and need more help, please do feel free to get in touch via my Facebook page – I can always do a session with you via Skype (a lot of my clients are international). ) to enjoy being a Mum more with my books and blog (I don't get much time to work 1to1 with people now a days).You'll see on my blog the series 'Sparkling You' which birthed my Amazon bestseller on how to get more contentment, time, energy, space, money and sparkle in your life.