Ever been at a party or a function where someone is talking to you, but at the same time scanning the room looking for someone else to talk to? I can also date multiple people and still make the right choice. Dating multiple people has significantly disabled bachelors and bachelorettes from focusing on the people sitting right in front of them.Studies show that too many options actually make it harder to choose.But here’s the thing: We have so much fun together. My best friend tells me to relax – this is just how dating is. I’m going nuts thinking about him dating other girls. However, despite the apparent benefits, the Tinder Revolution often leaves us feeling less self-confident, confused, frustrated, and empty. Everybody wants to feel special and to be treated with love and respect.
Or perhaps you two are from different areas and plan on going back home after graduating?I want to be with you without the distraction of other men.If we don’t work out and wind up going our separate ways, at least I’ll know I gave us a fair shot. I expect you to treat me with the same courtesy.” And if he refuses, consider yourself lucky that you’re finding this out now, before throwing away months when you could be dating more effectively. You’d be surprised how much a statement like that will impress and be endearing to quality guys. Sometimes guys need to tell women this as well.) There’s no bigger turn-off than a woman without self-confidence.Take a look at the various situations you may find yourself in come May, and our guide on what to consider when handling each one.: You and your boyfriend are both graduating As if seniors aren’t stressed out enough at the idea of paying off loans and finding a job (not to mention, weeknight drinking becoming becoming socially unacceptable), entering the real world can place a large amount of stress on your relationship as well.