When he needs connection or the fantasy of a relationship, he can effectively “order out” for a date.
By avoiding actual human contact he isn’t forced to push his boundaries or risk challenging the perfection of his fantasy women with the experience of a real life woman.
"Usually when people jump into the next relationship, they haven't done the work to grow themselves from that space, [or] to ready themselves for the next relationship," says Pharaon.
There are a multitude of reasons why this happens, but at the core, he is not ready or able to embark in a substantive relationship, regardless of what his profile says.
He gets lazy about himself, and will thereby get lazy about you.
Pharaon agrees: "For men, their purpose in life is something that's critical to their overall well-being.
No Ambition Guy"This is the guy who doesn't want to improve his life.
He's not very motivated, he's not very accountable for his actions, he's not very accountable to anything or to anyone, especially you, and that's how it would affect you," Costa says.