I could let myself off the hook and let the dating experiences just be what they were instead of tying my ego to them.
The ups and downs in this cycle can make you feel like you are unbalanced and have whiplash.
No wonder I felt horrible and had lots of go-nowhere relationships. Then, just like the lifespan of my favorite bras, the support system failed and the underwire started digging in.
When this happened I felt horrible, and went out looking for my next fix.
For whatever reason, you were not right for someone else. It is easy to get hung up on the “whys” behind their decision, but dwelling on them doesn’t change the reality.
If you aren’t right for someone else, they aren’t right for you.