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A very unhappy commitment phobic client said to me once about his latest conquest: “I’m not here for a long time, but I’m here for a good time, so I’m going to be very seductive and very romantic with her.
But, as soon as I get a whiff that she is starting to relax with me, be more human and real with me, I’m outta here!
It’s commonly known that people “break” under pressure.
When a guy feels pressured into a commitment, it’s the same way.
Sometimes you are in a relationship with a guy who seems like an amazing boyfriend, the kind of man who you could see yourself with for the rest of your life.
So what happens if you’re in a relationship with that guy, but he seems to be a “commitment phobe”?
If you’ve shown him that you’re going to push for a commitment as a goal, he may worry what the rest of the relationship will be like.
Maybe he takes you out on amazing dates and shows you a really great time.
Maybe he’s talked to you about your family, friends and things you love about life.
Commitment phobia is something I see in my office often and happens to both women and men. This is often not conscious and going on at the deepest level of the sub consciousness.
You can spot a commitment-phobe a mile away only if you know what you are looking for.