" Although I always refuse to give them my numerical opinion (because all men think differently), their guesses are usually very close to what I would have ranked them.So why would they set the bar so much higher than what they know they can get?Women tend to be aware of and rate their looks fairly accurately.I know this because a lot of readers send me pictures saying "I think I am an X out of 10, can you tell me what I really am?Occasionally we modify this self-perception when we realize the extent of strengths we didn't know we had, or weaknesses that have greater implications than we'd imagined.But in general, we know ourselves well; we know what we are capable of becoming.
So your discontent in dating boils down to the fact that you aren't living up to your own standards - yet.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.
At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.
A woman who is a 5.5 out of 10 has the potential to be a 7.5, so she "knows" that she can get men of that caliber (), and she is constantly being rejected by them.
She doesn't understand why, since she thinks these men are in her league, when the truth is that she could get into their league.