Observing a man’s actions is so much better than his words to find out if a guy is really into you.However, you’ve already been interacting and sort of dating for a few months.
I do not intend to defend a certain set of rules, or refute any.
Most of the time I contact him first, usually by text. Some men are happy to text quickly, but don’t really spend the necessary time connecting to build a solid relationship.
This can be a sign of lacking interest, laziness, casualness, etc.
Either way, the quality of your life is what you make it.
Feel free to interact with those of the opposite gender.