Born from the frustrations that Wolfe and women she knew would experience on Tinder, the idea is for women to have more control over the situation.
As is the case with many teenage dreams, that never happened.
So ladies, my advice to you is to be confident with your first move. Vicki’s most vocalized frustrations with online dating is that it perhaps attracts men who already lack initiative.
It’s attractive to see a woman who knows what she wants and is willing to put herself out there. When I described the app to a woman named Vicki, she became visibly agitated. The way she sees it, wouldn’t we all rather be doing more of the “dating” and less of the “online”?
And, to be even more honest, we typically can’t tell the difference between “playing hard to get” and “get lost.” To save our own pride, we usually assume it’s “get lost.”But if you start it off by showing interest, that changes things.
This phenomenon isn’t all that different from real life.