Both of them fail to understand there are things in the boy’s behavior that are fundamental and would be difficult to change.
And when it comes to the getting rid of baby fat; blame biology for that, not the girl.4.
One myth that many couples believe is “Opposites attract and are more likely to stay together.”However, the truth as told by Terri Orbuch in her book, Finding Love again is, “If you want to find someone to grow old with, look for someone who has values and attitude that are similar or compatible to yours.”In other words, those values and attitudes about things like religion, money, family, and careers are very important.2. Then after the wedding, she notices that those traits she hated were nothing but the tip of an iceberg.
Of course as the rest of the iceberg appears, so does divorce.3.
She expects him to change…and he expects her to stay the same.
In this story, she expects him to stop flirting with other women, start respecting women, while he expects her to stay slim and fit and beautiful even after the baby.
Last but not least, when it comes to relationships, there are never any guarantees.
To my pleasant surprise, my 30-something confidence combined with the dawn of casual online dating culture made for one damn fun year and a half.
Sometimes young couples get so obsessed with the story, they don’t accept that the person they’re engaged to is just the wrong person.
They don’t believe in the possibility of this joke; Boy asks girl: Will you marry me?
Some women might do that and it’s okay if it was her choice.
But problems start to happen when the woman refuses and the guy is not okay with that (see?